tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-402742936831988166.post8941241650243337388..comments2023-02-11T10:26:25.411-05:00Comments on Musings from the Gunks: On Being Afraid, and Sad BirthdaysMusings from the Gunkshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00515433356685213163noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-402742936831988166.post-77813719928254503182012-10-24T12:47:36.577-04:002012-10-24T12:47:36.577-04:00it doesn't matter when or what "shut"...it doesn't matter when or what "shut" the door what matters is opening it back up. Call your son if he hangs up write him. If he doesn't respond show up on his doorstep and don't leave until he opens the door. What has been done cannot be undone but it is possible to forge a new relationship, on his terms if that's what it takes.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14108166923112091122noreply@blogger.com